Ain't It Just The Way c. Zachary Lang Freiwald 2001 Ain't it just the way That the prettiest girls Say they don't need a man They're the ones that have Places to go/Things to see And ideas that could never pan Yeah, they could be Fairly down to earth and pleasing And still say that we're better off friends Well I've spent a lot of time Seeing this and I know Exactly how it all ends Well, it's them at thirty-eight Crawling, ragged And drinking at the bars Trying to dance with a younger man Not getting nowhere And going home lonely in their cars And they'll spend These lonely nights searching Waiting for the one Until forty comes and they Haven't found a thing but wrinkles And no place to run So, now they finally see That independence Has made them a slave to themselves That not even Santa Claus Can make you feel better Not even his elves Maybe everything wasn't as good As you perceived Maybe love held it all And all you had to do To avoid this honey Was break down and give me a call Well, ain't it just the way That the prettiest girls Say they don't need a man